Ruffles

Although I haven’t been actively working on the Handsome Triangle shawl for a week or so, I have been thinking about it a good deal.  Especially thinking about how much fun it will be to wear it and how flirty, coy, and feminine that ruffled edging will be. 

Handsome Triangle with ruffle 

Actually, I don’t think that many people who know me well would describe me as flirty or coy or even that feminine in the traditional sense.  Yet I find myself drawn to these ultra-feminine shawls–in fact, I also own the pattern for the “Flirty Ruffles Shawl” from Fiddlesticks Knitting and a large cone of Zephyr wool/silk with which to make it.

Flirty Ruffles shawl and Zephyr yarn

Who among us hasn’t fallen in love with a project that just doesn’t really fit the public image we’ve created for ourselves?  It’s part of the magic of knitting–the ability to create a new persona for myself with yarn, skill, and my own two hands.  To create the persona while creating the cloth–to craft a new self and be able to literally try it on for size.  To give myself the gift of living, for a little while, a different kind of life as a different kind of woman:  the kind of woman who wears ruffles, who flirts outrageously, who is unabashedly selfish, who can make strange men fall in love with her on sight.

It’s a lot to expect from a ruffled shawl, I know.  Some day, when the shawl is done, I’ll let you know how that woman is doing. 

6 Responses to “Ruffles”

  1. Ellen Says:

    A completely delightful post! I’d say more, but the NSF has destroyed my capacities for expression…

  2. Diane Says:

    Sounds like that woman is doing just fine!

  3. Mother Says:

    Sarah, I really loved this post. There are so many sides to all of us. I’m grateful you have a way to connect with that one of yours.

  4. debsnm Says:

    I’m trying to become a woman who wears shawls – perhaps when I knit my first one for me, I’ll do that! I hope your journey is all that it promises.

  5. lorinda Says:

    Perfectly lovely, Sarah, and glad to have your back from your respite (although one week is a short respite). I think that woman who wears the flowery shawls is more you than the public persona, because it’s the private, little seen you. At least that’s how it is for me. This post is a keeper–to reflect and ponder about those different selves. Thanks.

  6. Celeste Says:

    I would love a similar lacy edging to put on a heavy-weight shawl. Do you have any ideas?
    Thank you

    10/23/07