“Your [blank] [blank]“?? ::insert eye-rolling:: What, they’re talking to a two-year-old? It sounds like one of those really annoying euphemisms that litter our culture - you know, such as passed on instead of died. (I’ve always hated that one. Sheesh. I get so tempted to respond with something like, “Yeah, Mike was getting pretty worn-out looking, so I decided it *was* time to pass him on for recycling…”) Maybe you should start carrying one of your weights when you’re out discussing wedding plans. People might get so rattled they would use some plain speaking. [veg]