Stress management

I’m a tad pressed, so I haven’t been able to respond to all the comments the way that I usually try and like to do, but I would like to thank everyone who wrote something encouraging on Tuesday’s post. Your thoughts and kind words were very helpful.

So was the fact that some of Alex’s family members sent us a Cuisinart countertop wine cellar, something I’ve always secretly desired, but would never have bought for myself.

Suddenly, the wedding is starting to look a lot more worthwhile to me!

I’ve also been attempting to employ various stress management techniques like, for instance, knitting:
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The Laines du Nord Mulberry Silk is absolutely gorgeous, although I will admit that for the moment the scarf looks a bit dull…but just you wait! There are ruffles that go on the ends and those are going to be very, very exciting. I promise. (Seriously, the pattern is really, really cool. You just can’t tell it right now. Stay tuned.)

This is also my first experience with the new Addi Turbo Lace Needles, shown here in a U.S. Size 5. Thumbs up! Nice, sharp points, light needle, smooth join…what’s not to like?

I’m also extremely excited about the first shipment of Tofutsies (featured in the most recent IK, by the way) in a “limited edition” colorway:
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At Woolcott, we have formed a special Tofutsies Sock Club (limited to twenty people) and each of us will now automatically get our Tofutsies fix every two months for the next year. Normally, of course, I wouldn’t want to be part of any club that would have someone like me as a member, but I made an exception in this case.

My plan is to knit this up on a pair of U.S. Size 1 Addi Turbo Lace Needles, pursuant to their claim to be “good for socks.” We’ll just see about that, won’t we? The yarn itself is and interesting blend: 50% superwash wool, 25% soysilk fibers, 22.5% cotton, and 2.5% chitin. The latter is a fiber derived from shrimp and crab shells and is, according to the marketing folk, “naturally antibacterial.” To my knowledge, there is no actual tofu in the Tofutsies—since soysilk fiber is a bit different, I believe, than coagulated soy milk.

The presence of the chitin, however, led to a great many questions about whether or not these socks would be safe for people with dietary allergies to shrimp and shellfish.

As we know, there are no stupid questions. However, if there were, that would be one.

Beyond knitting, I have also been spending an inordinate amount of time at the gym—the idea being that it is better to heave iron barbells around for a couple of hours than it is to A) guzzle half a bottle of Southern Comfort and shoot up the neighborhood; B) cash in all your retirement savings at a loss, buy an old Cadillac Seville, and run away from home with your dog; or C) burn your wedding gown and veil in the street while screaming, “I am living in the fifth ring of gender-role hell, people! Gender-role hell!”

And finally, I am reading Bringing Down the House, the story of the M.I.T. blackjack team, card counters who made millions off the casinos in Las Vegas. That is, until they were shut down by what the back cover refers to as “violent heavies.” Although it is very poorly written—almost painfully so—the tale is nonetheless highly diversionary. I was attracted to the book by my recent trip to Vegas, but also because I rather liked the idea that people could be employed full time as “violent heavies.”

I wish I had known this when I was a college counselor. It might have provided a viable alternative to college for some of our less scholarly students. One boy in particular I’m thinking of…he would have made a great “violent heavy.”

I think he now trades bonds on Wall Street instead.

Figures.

7 Responses to “Stress management”

  1. polarbears Says:

    Regarding the shellfish allergy: I suppose it would depend upon whether you chew on your socks….

  2. Ellen Says:

    Polarbears, you are so right! I overlooked that possiblity. Or maybe I just didn’t want to think about it…

    As a postscript to this post, I would like to let everyone know that the Incomparable Kate was here yesterday visiting and she has expressed her willingness to drink the other half of the bottle of Southern Comfort if she can shoot up the neighborhood with me. Should it come to that.

    Now there’s a good friend!

  3. Kate Says:

    Well I am from Virginia…if there’s two things we know here, it’s guns and SoCo.

    (Well. I learned yesterday that Alex might know more about guns than I do. But I bet I know more about southern booze.)

  4. laura Says:

    I just got some Tofutsies. I am intrigued.

    Hang in there, chica. The Gender-Role Hell will be over before you know it. 🙂

  5. debsnm Says:

    Love, love, LOVE the Groucho Marx reference! I read about the MIT dudes in Wired a few years ago. I love how the minds at MIT work!

  6. Wanda Says:

    All I can say is hang in there. Weddings and the prep can make you crazy, but it will soon be over. Somehow I managed to miss the label of Bridezilla, too funny. But you are nowhere near a Bridezilla.

    I’m curious about the Tofutsies and surprisingly a lot of people do ask the question a/b folks who are allergic to shellfish.

    Good luck!

  7. MonicaPDX Says:

    LOL – ok, so soysilk isn’t the same as soybean milk, and chitin’s not a part of shellfish we eat (except maybe accidentally)… But I now have mental riffs about ad campaigns dealing with healthy soy and chitin diets running in the back of my head. Sometimes I think there’s an odd kick in my gallop. Of course, I also got a kick out of the “violent heavy” career ops.

    And Kate, hurray for you! Please, if you two go out and shoot the place up, be sure and call the media first, ok? We want to be able to say we knew you guys when! (Think Nicole Kidman would play you in the movie, Ellen?)